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Title: Sexism and bullying towards female players what gives? [Print this page]

author: Dethsinger    time: 2016-5-6 23:27:09     Title: Sexism and bullying towards female players what gives?

Edited by Dethsinger at 2016-5-6 23:30

  Okay so I play on US334 and originally played on US14 (my first toon was there named DoubleDeez) but this is what I don't understand why are there so many ignorant, sexist players on the game when you admit to being a female that likes playing this game, I don't like beauty game but the rest of its pretty fun and sometimes hilarious; but there is a player by the name of Gatoconbotas who seem's to despise the fact that his competition (only competition mind you) is a female player, he calls me names, belittles me, degrades a female competitor and said that the only thing I am good for is "Pie" I know when someone's being a douchebag thanks to a montly visitor but this guy seem's to eminate salt and vinegar more than lays potato chip factory or a ladies book of the week gathering.     When I was on US14 the same attitude basically drove me off the server I tried to avoid any names that would give them a reason to say anything sexist or rude this time (MassSlave) my husbands toon Massacare but he doesn't want to play bc of how ignorant this Gatoconbotas guy is.   Why do some guys feel they have to belittle their female competitors even after this guy has thrown $5000 to basically beat and molest my toon; beating me doesn't bother me, it's his constant bantering about female competition and derogitory remarks regarding sex towards me, almost like he's trying to rape the internet bc he's got a female on the same server.So what gives with guys being douchebags towards their female competitors?
and why does it seem that the Gm's do nothing about the sexist actions against me?
has this game really declined that much in the past year that guys like this have free reign?


author: rabbitbadgerbear    time: 2016-5-7 00:29:26

well foe me my server is pretty small eu 307 and everyone is really  cool, and yeah the beauty game is a bit sexist (they should add one for like aizen or ishida )
Just black list the people who are dicks and assume they are the worst of the worst thats what i do in most games, they are probs like teenager aged 13-17 so yeah it sucks but i do not think the Gms are even active so only thing to do is blacklist those players.
author: ShadowConsortium    time: 2016-5-7 01:01:14

Speaking as another female player, all I can say is some guys like to act like that because honestly, it makes them feel big and bad when offline...they are nothing but a waste of air. If your not that devoted to your progress on your current server come play on mine US 272. I'm currently ranked #3 and really there isn't any of that kind of bullshit happening on our server because frankly I'd tell them where to stick their little prick if they had the balls to say something.

If you come I can pretty much promise a fun server with the exception of a few who will spam you in spanish like no tomorrow, and a spot in my guild which basically runs the server. Look me up Desire - Shadow Guild Leader. Ps.Beauty games are just drawings and don't bother us females as much as you guys like to believe.

author: fralloppo    time: 2016-5-7 01:17:00

Seriously, online games are full of immature, stupid guys. Here physical strength doesn't count, therefore I don't understand why they should feel better or stronger. If they still act like this, just ignore them. You can't change some fool with the maturity of a 6 years old, so let them learn in real life, the hardest way.
about beauty game, i personally find it annoying and a waste of time. let id be and don't care. Not caring about idiocy is always the simplest solution ;)
author: Suzuken    time: 2016-5-7 01:47:11

have you ever heard of "block" option ?
author: bwg2469    time: 2016-5-7 01:51:02

So when are we having this Bikini show? It's in the damn game and now its time to show the forum members. Your turn girls!!
author: I_MIKE_I    time: 2016-5-7 01:52:25

lol 99% of the time my server is silent, only time we get people talking and being an asshole is when some random people make toons on our server and start stuff with us XD (especially me and another guy since we the strongest on our server)
author: Devvoke2    time: 2016-5-7 02:18:16

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author: bwg2469    time: 2016-5-7 02:31:28

Devvoke2 replied at 2016-5-6 23:18
get screens of the abuse and try sending it to support or something

the sexist thing i ever seen was on lemonparty.org to be honest.
author: fralloppo    time: 2016-5-7 02:47:12

bwg2469 replied at 2016-5-7 07:51
So when are we having this Bikini show? It's in the damn game and now its time to show the forum mem ...

You asked for it...

author: Devvoke2    time: 2016-5-7 02:48:03

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author: bwg2469    time: 2016-5-7 03:09:03

Devvoke2 replied at 2016-5-6 23:48
you mean sexiest

there I fixed tour typos but I wont always be here to do it for you

            
author: bwg2469    time: 2016-5-7 03:09:44

fralloppo replied at 2016-5-6 23:47
You asked for it...

DA COCK!!!!
author: Uzumakia1    time: 2016-5-7 03:59:43

I'm a simple man i see/hear boobs/ass I like why cant the world be so simple love thy booty !!!




































































#MGTOW
author: lordmiz    time: 2016-5-7 11:10:02

lol there is a thing called report to gogames i mean look what happend to living god
author: 595459354    time: 2016-5-7 11:38:27

bwg2469 replied at 2016-5-7 07:51
So when are we having this Bikini show? It's in the damn game and now its time to show the forum mem ...

Upvote for Research purposes
author: 595459354    time: 2016-5-7 11:39:44

lordmiz replied at 2016-5-7 17:10
lol there is a thing called report to gogames i mean look what happend to living god

Lmao yhae they're so gonna ban that guy
author: MylarHyrule    time: 2016-5-7 11:43:46

you could just block him
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-7 11:56:35

rabbitbadgerbear replied at 2016-5-7 00:29
well foe me my server is pretty small eu 307 and everyone is really  cool, and yeah the beauty game  ...

lol I'm a guy and id like an aizen one
#no one can deny aizens sexiness
id hope hes one where it would give like souls and vitality
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-7 11:57:47

ShadowConsortium replied at 2016-5-7 01:01
Speaking as another female player, all I can say is some guys like to act like that because honestly ...

lol or this nice women could come to mine we don't have sexism on our server just the chat will get weird with very weird conversations
but no sexism
we have a few females on our server
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-7 11:58:42

fralloppo replied at 2016-5-7 01:17
Seriously, online games are full of immature, stupid guys. Here physical strength doesn't count, the ...

lol even in real life I wouldn't fuck with a girl not only because its the right thing to do but I also fear that it will involve me getting kicked in the dick very fucking hard
author: Devvoke2    time: 2016-5-7 12:09:07

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author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-7 12:13:07

Devvoke2 replied at 2016-5-7 12:09
fun fact all the females on your server.............

lol nah my nigga you don't even know what servers I'm on
I said servers because we have like 7 bunched together
author: polarisx7    time: 2016-5-7 12:16:18

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author: [email protected]    time: 2016-5-7 12:25:01

polarisx7 replied at 2016-5-7 18:16
Named DoubleDeez and expects to be taken seriously.  That would be like me being named LongDongSilve ...

Hahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahaha. I didn't even catch the double ds until you pointed it out. Some funny ass shit. I agree actually 100%
author: Zento-Hazashi    time: 2016-5-7 14:24:51

Didn't read the full thing




but it's the internet, expect "weirdo's" and the lot to come your way when you say you're a female
author: bwg2469    time: 2016-5-7 14:45:14

lordmiz replied at 2016-5-7 08:10
lol there is a thing called report to gogames i mean look what happend to living god

OH FOR GOOD GOD I'VE BEEN TRYING TO GET BANNED FOR LIKE 2 FUCKING YEARS. Maybe I should # and YELL all the time.
author: Mojito1985    time: 2016-5-7 14:57:43

boys bully girls

because actually they really like them and they get f***** up in there head and dont know how to behave
they need to prove they are not a sissy (culture related)
because they get bully arround by there own wife
because they are frustrated they dont have any
because there boys=oompla loompa cave man and not gentleman=no explanation needed

so basicly just ignore them, block them
author: kosmik    time: 2016-5-7 15:38:11

Edited by kosmik at 2016-5-7 15:42

Block function makes the world go round.  How the hell do you molest or worse, rape someone, OVER THE INTERNET?
Secondly, having a name like DoubleDeez is inviting remarks being thrown towards your way.  MassSlave, 1 letter away from MissSlave; not much better there eh?  Seeing how apparently everyone knows your female, somehow.  Would you walk into any social setting and promptly announce your chest size for everyone?  Are your breasts half way out and your offended when someone looks?  Same as if a guy was name TwelveInchDick; it is just asking for side bar commentary.
Lastly, if you don't show proof (IE screenshots) or harassment it's hearsay and a GM won't do anything about it; not that they do much anyways except blame us for "not telling them".

Final point and them I'm done - you just lumped every male into that douchebag club regarding female competition.  I play with a female in my guild; she's never once been harassed for being a female.  So, you may want to reword your previous statement  and I don't know, maybe come back at the fuckers who are coming at you.  Seriously though, god damn block button and no need for any of this crap.


5000$ to beat and "molest" a toon.  I can understand being all "grrrr" about the heavy casher, but adding in the "oh the heavy casher is molesting me with his words and only attacks me in the arena" comes off as any form of whiny if it be male or female.
author: kosmik    time: 2016-5-7 15:42:47

polarisx7 replied at 2016-5-7 12:16
Named DoubleDeez and expects to be taken seriously.  That would be like me being named LongDongSilve ...


^         
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-7 15:44:05

kosmik replied at 2016-5-7 15:38
Block function makes the world go round.  How the hell do you molest or worse, rape someone, OVER TH ...

lol kosmik I love all your points there and if some one named their selves 12inch dick id have to give them props then make fun of them when I beat them saying looks like your a little short(meaning in one of his stats but as well as a joke)
author: kosmik    time: 2016-5-7 15:47:23

Shadow49999 replied at 2016-5-7 15:44
lol kosmik I love all your points there and if some one named their selves 12inch dick id have to  ...


Lmao; sorry I prefer to comment on posts that are trying like all hell to be serious but don't come off that way.  Tbh, I would have had a good ol' laugh at DoubleDeez because 99.9% of the time, that name, belongs to a male.
author: [email protected]    time: 2016-5-7 16:23:32

Wow, i had a couple of females on the servers i have played and i haven't had any kind of problems of the sort(Bearing in mind that i am a male and not online 24/7, but close to it)
All i can say is ignore that asshat, you can block communication too if you really can't just block him out mentally, as such an asshat isn't worth spending even 1 second on <3
Everyone hates those people, all you can do is block him and leave him be
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-7 16:57:17

kosmik replied at 2016-5-7 15:47
Lmao; sorry I prefer to comment on posts that are trying like all hell to be serious but don't com ...

lol yeah
#king of strong style
#you know whats up
#12inchdick
author: badbone    time: 2016-5-7 18:08:18

595459354 replied at 2016-5-7 11:39
Lmao yhae they're so gonna ban that guy

Lol if he is real hacker he cant get ban  that easy. This striped formation
isnt a ban + they never notice him and he was like vip200
and he is god in naruto game too no one touch him.
author: Lelouch71    time: 2016-5-7 18:27:15

why all the drama happens in us?
author: angelucifer    time: 2016-5-7 18:37:06

Just Show Him Your BOOBS BOOBS Solve Everything
author: Lelouch71    time: 2016-5-7 18:46:15

angelucifer replied at 2016-5-7 18:37
Just Show Him Your BOOBS BOOBS Solve Everything

Words of wisdom,that's the unescapable truth itself ! Dew it DoubleDeezzzzzzzz
author: Suzuken    time: 2016-5-7 18:47:14

Lelouch71 replied at 2016-5-8 02:27
why all the drama happens in us?

too much coffee bro, all because of the coffee
author: Lelouch71    time: 2016-5-7 18:49:15

Suzuken replied at 2016-5-7 18:47
too much coffee bro, all because of the coffee

Soo this was the secret ingredient? Well,i'll keep that in mind lmao
author: [email protected]    time: 2016-5-7 18:50:16

Thank god for one click beauty game, i hate that sh*t too lol. send that stupid guy to my server
author: RiadDahoe    time: 2016-5-7 20:10:19

like real life , this shit happens.... well for me it was the other way around, after a server merge , we got a few female players, they were all pretty cool , ehh accept 1, a vip 10 lolzz... she got mad when i beat her in soulpalace , everytime i beat her , she spends....after a few days when i beat her again , she would spend again..... The moral of this story is .... GOGAMES wins everytime..lolzzz
author: Angelus28    time: 2016-5-7 20:43:39

If youre confrontational tell him to shut up and grow a pair. If youre not either leave or stay and be silent. Id go with the confrontation and ask him when did his mother leave him and why would he use his issues to lash out on an unsuspecting person like you? Or maybe hes just doing that because its the nearest type of any action he can get?? Or if he had so much money get an actual girl to even interact with him and punch him in the mouth?? Im sure theres a million ways for him to get over it.....just tell him that too.
author: Cronosel    time: 2016-5-7 21:36:02

Females <3        
author: tytheboy    time: 2016-5-8 02:35:01

the gm's arent that present anymore... (and i have played this game for well over 400 days)
its tru that i am a boy so i cant relly understand your situation fully,  but i think you have just been unlucy with the other players in your server... we have and previously had a fewgirls on our server us 100 witch was open about being girls and they were treated quite nicely as far as im conserned
i havent felt any of this toward either me nor any of the other players (female) in my server... should mention im using a female shinigami sprite named "nina ishadi" only people who frequently speak to me guilidies and friens know im a boy
its good that you tell about stuff like this tho makes the forum notice
author: playbleach1    time: 2016-5-8 03:17:53

bwg2469 replied at 2016-5-7 14:45
OH FOR GOOD GOD I'VE BEEN TRYING TO GET BANNED FOR LIKE 2 FUCKING YEARS. Maybe I should # and YELL ...

you should just say muahahahhahaahahhahahahhahahhahahah in old threads that would be all !!
only if u DARE     MUAAHAHAHHAAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHHAAHAHHAAHHA
author: Kunpachi    time: 2016-5-8 03:29:13

playbleach1 replied at 2016-5-8 03:17
you should just say muahahahhahaahahhahahahhahahhahahah in old threads that would be all !!
only  ...

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author: Lelouch71    time: 2016-5-8 05:54:20

playbleach1 replied at 2016-5-8 03:17
you should just say muahahahhahaahahhahahahhahahhahahah in old threads that would be all !!
only  ...

MUAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
author: playbleach1    time: 2016-5-8 07:56:20

Lelouch71 replied at 2016-5-8 05:54
MUAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
author: playbleach1    time: 2016-5-8 07:59:57

Kunpachi replied at 2016-5-8 03:29


author: Dethsinger    time: 2016-5-8 14:28:33

Edited by Dethsinger at 2016-5-8 14:30

You see i've tried to report this guy nothing happens, I can't even get bloodbattles done this guy goes in blocks my friend and me from doing them.  He uses an alt to give himself wins then stays in bloodbattles constantly waiting for me to attempt to do them.   He's probably the most juvenile prick I have met on this game, I mean what kind of threat can I be he's $5k deep in the game, he's only doing things to bully now.   and when I say $5k deep that may be a slight undersight he has 4 Warrior Clan Hogy treasures capped out, threw over $1000 at ultimate charge when Shy Nemu was up, bought hikifune, berserk renji and TSI out of labor of glory along with mugetsu and Muramasa for a Zanpakuto.   he's not spending wisely just large cash dumping, I am the only person that isn't an alt on this server there is 4 active players besides me on here and they are all Quincy in his guild.
He's even went as far as to PM me and tell me I may as well quit and move to another server that this one (334 is HIS) as if he owns the entire server, to be honest I think this may be LivingGod on a new toon.  almost 1mil BP and only 85 so far he's not went as far as putting fury on everyone but at $4k a week going into the game, it wont be long till all his toons have it.
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-8 14:57:35

Dethsinger replied at 2016-5-8 14:28
You see i've tried to report this guy nothing happens, I can't even get bloodbattles done this guy g ...

eh living god was a hacker not a dick
also living god had played for like 3 months and had 11mil bp by lv 85 living god had like 6mil bp doesn't sound like him but yeah the guy on your server needs to be raped and then again to teach him a lesson
author: angelucifer    time: 2016-5-8 16:12:26

Just Change Your Name For DP
author: 595459354    time: 2016-5-8 16:20:24

Dethsinger replied at 2016-5-8 20:28
You see i've tried to report this guy nothing happens, I can't even get bloodbattles done this guy g ...

Not that hard to beat a dumbass who just throws $$

And tbh you're taking this game too serious aswell if you're bothered with a retarded player on your server.
First of all, there's a block/ignore function for a reason, use it.
As for him being a dick towards you, it's up to him if he wants to do that or not but tbh, if he's 24/7 to 'mentally abuse you' or being a douche @Alliance war, that means he has a sad life.

Just be glad that you're not that sad and move on. Either start over on another server, where Mr.Douche might follow you too because he's bored and has nthng else to do in his life or just 'girl up' and ignore it.

Seriously I bet you actually respond to his 'troll' attempts. If you ignore a person, no matter who, they'll eventually stop.

ps: It's super easy to give yourself wins @Aliance war, even if he abuses toons lmao
author: kosmik    time: 2016-5-8 16:31:05

re-title the thread to -this guy is a dick- and it would actually represent what your trying to convey so people don't have to read the eventual 8-9 pages.  Damn.  It's a heavy casher being an asshole, it happens.  Only "punishment" this guy is going to get is the server dying out so he's even more alone than he probably already is.
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-8 16:35:12

kosmik replied at 2016-5-8 16:31
re-title the thread to -this guy is a dick- and it would actually represent what your trying to conv ...

lol I love it when you come out and post. to others its just another post but to me its like god laying out the ten commandments
#king of strong style
#live on
author: polarisx7    time: 2016-5-8 16:42:49

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author: Lelouch71    time: 2016-5-8 16:49:15

playbleach1 replied at 2016-5-8 07:59

lmao dude ahahaha
sorry this was not cool
MUAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAAHHAAH
author: kosmik    time: 2016-5-8 19:01:42

Shadow49999 replied at 2016-5-8 16:35
lol I love it when you come out and post. to others its just another post but to me its like god l ...

And all I ask is.
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-8 19:03:02

kosmik replied at 2016-5-8 19:01
And all I ask is.

#Kosmik has spoken
author: undine    time: 2016-5-9 05:03:26

It turns me on when guys are talking shit
author: Shadow49999    time: 2016-5-9 05:55:13

undine replied at 2016-5-9 05:03
It turns me on when guys are talking shit

lol I love a girl that can take a hit
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author: criminal238    time: 2016-5-9 06:39:03

There is no female players in our server  :'(
author: jackthehorn    time: 2016-5-9 06:59:09

Ignore it or have patience that you will become stronger.
I have one russian guy here(just one and now he is all calm) who was like that but he became my friendly archenemy now lol
He kept on rescuing slave each and every day so i wont get exp, i was angry before but now keeping cool thinking all he have is just 3 chances
Just make friends whom you like and talk to them and block or ignore who you feel are being douche.

And yes would totally like aizen to be in beauty game ( the tavern one looks really good, use that if gogames add him in future.) And byakuya too lol

Dont let just one person destroy the fun of game. I realized how games are fun by playing this for first time ^_^
author: undine    time: 2016-5-9 07:04:49

Shadow49999 replied at 2016-5-9 05:55
lol I love a girl that can take a hit

Lets make babies then <3
author: undine    time: 2016-5-9 07:08:02

Shadow49999 replied at 2016-5-9 05:55
lol I love a girl that can take a hit

Look how i destroy kosmo on ES

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author: Sinnesfrid    time: 2016-5-9 07:50:58

Edited by Sinnesfrid at 2016-5-9 07:52

I am a female player and on my server I am ranked number 3, number 1 no longer plays, number 2 is so inactive that I basically rule the server. I admit to playing as a male toon (choosen since I like Ulqiorra) and every player on the server knows that I am female and I can say that I have seen nothing of this. Everyone treats me well, calls me Lady Yi Shi (Yi Shi is my toon name), is kind to me, talks to me, shares their tips with me, we help each other gain achievments and run ABB on a daily basis.
This is despite the fact that I beat them up, occupies top spots, and so on. So despite a female player being above the male players so have I seen absolutely nothing at all. Except one rude player but he is generally rude and doesnt condemn over gender he is just how do you say it dismissive and doesnt wanna be social with anyone.

And to carry on have you reported him to the GMs with screenshots of his actions?
author: Dethsinger    time: 2016-5-10 21:24:58

Sinnesfrid I have done everything I can at this point, and got a reply from support saying they will have the server operators investigate the matter, but as an example of the server I left with livinggod destroying it and US21, a ban or the actions of support are lack luster and can take way to long
author: Devvoke2    time: 2016-5-10 21:33:48

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author: Kosmodestiny    time: 2016-5-10 21:36:35

Devvoke2 replied at 2016-5-10 21:33
4 minutes in and still not dead?

gimme a few weeks
author: [email protected]    time: 2016-5-11 00:43:13

just block him, you will see no messages from him after that.




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